my Articulate Heart

We live in an age that mistrusts waiting. Everything around us urges immediacy—instant answers, instant pleasure, instant relief. To wait is often portrayed as weakness, as though patience were merely the absence of courage. And so, when something within us longs deeply, we feel pressured to act quickly, to resolve the tension before it teaches us anything. Yet waiting is not emptiness. It is not passivity. It is not fear. Waiting is a form of strength. At the heart of every desire is a question: Can I trust that what is truly good will come to me in the right time? Waiting answers that question not with words, but with the posture of the heart. It says, I will not take what I have not yet received. True freedom is often misunderstood as the ability to do whatever we want. But freedom, in its deepest sense, is the ability not to act—especially when acting would reduce love to impulse. The person who cannot wait is not free; he is driven. The one who can wait is governed by som...

Desire rarely announces itself gently. It rises as a restlessness in the heart, a longing that refuses to stay quiet. And when it becomes strong—bodily, insistent—we grow uneasy. We assume something has gone wrong. Holiness, we tell ourselves, must mean wanting less. So we learn to distrust desire. We suppress it, manage it, or rush to silence it before it exposes something too deep. Yet desire did not begin as a problem. It was placed in us at creation—a thirst meant to draw us toward communion. Desire is not a command to be obeyed, but a movement to be understood. The trouble is not that desire is strong, but that it is poorly interpreted. We live in a world that treats desire like an emergency: feel it, satisfy it, immediately. Waiting is called repression. Patience is mistaken for weakness. But the body does not speak in demands; it speaks in signals. And signals ask for discernment, not impulse. Desire always reaches before it grabs. It seeks closeness, belonging, union. T...

There is a quiet lie many people carry: “I am too broken to be healed.” Christmas gently but firmly contradicts that lie. The Theology of the Body, especially as taught by Saint John Paul II, reminds us that we are not fundamentally flawed. We are created good. Sin did not destroy our desires—it twisted them inward. Our problem is not that we desire too much. It is that we desire too small. Christ does not come to erase desire. He comes to redeem it. God Enters Real Life, Not Ideal Life At Christmas, God does not wait for humanity to be strong, sorted, or spiritually impressive. He enters weakness. This changes everything. It means we no longer have to hide our poverty from God—tired marriages, strained relationships, confused desires, daily frustrations. Hope begins when we stop performing and start offering our lives as they are. Salvation does not begin by escaping our humanity. It begins by allowing God to enter it. The Body: Place of Hope, Not...

In the context of Christmas, words like bride , bridegroom , and spousal might sound abstract or distant. But in fact, Christmas makes them concrete—touchable, visible, human. The birth of Jesus is not only the arrival of a Savior. It is the arrival of the Bridegroom. Jesus is born in Bethlehem , which means House of Bread . He is laid in a manger—a feeding trough. From the very beginning, His body is marked for gift. Scripture captures this with stunning clarity: “A body you have prepared for me.” This body is prepared to be given. What the “Spousal Meaning of the Body” Really Means In the Theology of the Body, the spousal meaning of the body simply means this: The body is made to say, “I give myself to you.” At Christmas, God speaks that sentence not with words, but with flesh. Christ comes to unite Himself to humanity. But the Bride is wounded. Sin has distorted her ability to receive and to give love. She cannot make herself worthy. So the Bridegr...

Every Christmas, we look at the manger and think we already know the story. A baby. A stable. Mary. Joseph. Angels. Shepherds. But if we pause long enough, something deeply unsettling emerges. Why this way? Why would an all-powerful God choose to enter the world as a child—helpless, dependent, unable even to hold His own head upright? God does not arrive with force. He arrives with vulnerability. He does not bypass the human condition. He enters it through the main door , the same way every one of us does—through dependence. At the Nativity, the omnipotent God allows Himself to be carried, fed, cleaned, protected, and taught. He places His life into the hands of Mary and Joseph. The Creator submits Himself to His creation. This is not God using a body. This is God revealing what the body is for. What the Baby in the Manger Is Really Showing Us In the light of the Theology of the Body, Christmas reveals a simple but radical truth: The body exists for self-gif...

In a world searching for identity, many find themselves caught between two extremes: shame and pride. These are not mere emotions but deep-seated responses to a fundamental deprivation of Agape, the unconditional, life-giving love of God. On one end, shame convinces people they are unworthy and broken beyond repair. On the other, pride masquerades as empowerment, urging people to claim their woundedness as their identity. The LGBT movement, at its core, operates on this extreme end of pride—reacting against shame, yet unknowingly reinforcing the very deprivation that caused it. Shame: The Lie That We Are Unworthy Shame is a powerful force. It tells a person that they are flawed at their very core, unworthy of love and acceptance. Many who struggle with their identity—especially in areas of sexuality—have experienced deep wounds, often from childhood. Rejection, abandonment, abuse, or the absence of affirmation can leave a person with a distorted self-image, believing that they are ...

In a world where confusion is celebrated as truth and disorder is disguised as authenticity, the modern gender ideology stands as one of the most striking examples of spiritual deception. The Catholic Church teaches that human dignity is rooted in our creation in the image and likeness of God (Genesis 1:27). Our identity as male and female is not an arbitrary social construct but a divine gift. Yet, powerful influences have worked tirelessly to dismantle this truth, leading countless souls into confusion and bondage. This movement is not merely about "inclusion" or "equality"—it is a deliberate attempt to redefine human nature itself. Worse still, global lobbying efforts have ensured that laws and policies now reinforce these deceptions, making it increasingly difficult for individuals to seek true healing in Christ. A Cleverly Disguised Deception Satan is the father of lies, and his strategy has always been to distort God's truth. Jesus warned us: "He was ...

The desire for nourishment is one of the most primal instincts in every human being. From the moment a child is born, it knows without instruction where to turn for sustenance—its mother’s breast. In certain tribal cultures, this truth is vividly demonstrated. Newborns are placed on their mother’s stomach, and without guidance, they instinctively crawl upwards to latch onto the breast. It’s not just a physical act of feeding; it’s a profound moment of connection. When the baby nurses, it receives more than nourishment—it feels loved, wanted, and valued. Mothers, attuned to their babies’ cries, know exactly what their child needs. This intimate exchange of life and love is a microcosm of the larger truths about human desire and fulfillment. But what happens when this natural desire is unmet? Often, a baby resorts to sucking its thumb—a substitute. The thumb cannot nourish, it cannot fulfill the child’s needs, and it doesn’t convey love or value. Instead, it forms a compulsive habit, a p...

We all carry within us a profound yearning—an ache that words struggle to capture. It’s a groaning of the soul, a deep longing that intensifies as we search for meaning, fulfillment, and purpose in our lives. Despite our relentless pursuit of satisfaction—whether through achievements, relationships, or material gains—there remains an unsettling sense of incompleteness. This dissatisfaction reveals something deeper, something beyond the fleeting satisfaction of earthly things. It is the cry of our hearts, longing for a connection with the divine, an invitation to embrace the fullness of who we were created to be. Have you ever felt a gnawing desire for something more—a deeper love, a clearer truth, or a beauty that takes your breath away yet leaves you still yearning? These longings are universal, etched into the very fabric of our being. And yet, no matter how much we achieve or acquire, we find ourselves hungry for more. Why is that? As St. Augustine wrote, “You have made us for y...

The connection between the one-flesh union of man and woman in the covenant of marriage and the celebration of the Holy Eucharist is profound and mysterious. One is a sign of the other, a sacramental revelation of human love ascending to divine love—an eros that is transfigured into agape. Drawing from the Theology of the Body, the Song of Songs, St. John of the Cross, and sacramental theology, let us explore this divine mystery. Advance Preparations In both marriage and the Eucharist, preparation is essential. The bride’s advance preparations symbolize the soul’s readiness to encounter God. Prayer becomes the bride’s ascent to meet the divine Bridegroom, and confession cleanses the heart, making it worthy to receive the Eucharist. Just as a bride undergoes a ritual bath before entering the bridal chamber, so too the use of holy water signifies spiritual cleansing and renewal. The Bridal Chamber The preparation of the altar mirrors the preparations for the marital union. The altar clot...