The Four Stages of Love
Love, in its truest sense, is not stagnant. It is a journey, an unfolding revelation of the heart’s deepest desires and God’s call to intimacy with Him. As humans, we move through stages of love, not always in order, often stumbling, but always beckoned higher. These stages, ancient yet ever new, lead us to the fullness of life and love in God. 1. Loving Self for the Sake of Self In the beginning, our love is simple and self-centered. We love ourselves because it feels natural, even instinctual. This love is about survival, comfort, and pleasure. At this stage, we are like infants, crying for what we need without considering the giver. And yet, this love is not without its purpose. It is a necessary foundation, a mirror reflecting our innate desire to be cared for. But if we remain here, we risk becoming trapped in the illusion that we are the center of the universe. True love calls us forward, beyond ourselves. 2. Loving God for the Sake of Self When we encounter God, it often begins ...